Relationship Problems

How To Fix Your Relationship Problems

Exclusive summary about relationship problems by Dan Weber

The relationships that we have in our lives are very important, and if you are having problems in your relationship, it is important to do all that you can to fix these relationship problems so that you can go on with your life and with your relationship. If you are able to stop relationship problems, you will be happier, and so will your spouse.

First of all, you must determine what the root of your problems for your relationship are. Remember that chances are good that both of you have some things that you have done to cause problems in the relationship. In order to fix relationship problems, both of you need to take responsibility for the things that you have done wrong. The only way to find solutions to your relationship problems are to take care to make sure that you focus on one problem at a time. Remember that you will need to tackle all of the problems, but you can fix relationship issues one at a time. You need to work together with your spouse to fix relationship problems. Remember that relationships are hard to work on, and you want to be sure that you talk things through with your spouse. When you have relationship problems, it is important that you are able to fix them as soon as possible.

Relationship Problems: Solvable or Unsolvable

Exclusive summary about relationship problems by Jeff Herring

Every so often, I will hear a relationship speaker claim that they have never had a fight or problem in their marriage. My response to such a claim is that the person is either

1) lying or

2) certainly can't relate to me.

All love relationships have their share of problems, or to use the popular phrase, all relationships have issues.

In general, relationship issues can be divided into two categories: Solvable and unsolvable.

a) Solvable relationship problems

Solvable relationship problems are generally related to the needs you have in a relationship. An unmet need leads to a problem or issue. Some relationship needs are emotional needs and some are called functional needs. A functional need is what you need for your life to work in a way that fits for you while in a relationship.

The good news is that needs are negotiable, and there are lots of ways to meet a need. So meeting needs are very important, and are the difference between being happy or unhappy in a relationship.

b) Unsolvable relationship problems

Unsolvable relationship problems are generally related to what are called your requirements. If even one of these requirements is missing the relationship will not work for you.

Requirements are relationship breakers. The problem is that we often treat our requirements as factors that are negotiable. For example, I once worked with a client who had a requirement that she have children, so the marriage ended.